'Trauma expert' Gabor Mate says he bitterly REGRETS controversial Prince Harry interview because of 'demeaning, dismissive' backlash he faced - saying 'foofoo' surrounding it took over his life and made him 'lose himself'
- Harry's
conversation with the doctor, 79, was fiercely scrutinized back in March
- At
the time, it was revealed Gabor had previously made anti-Zionist comments
- He
has now addressed the backlash, admitting that it left him in a 'dark
place'
'Trauma expert' Gabor MatΓ© has admitted that he
regrets his controversial interview with Prince
Harry because the 'foofoo' surrounding it took over his entire life and
made him 'lose himself.'
Back in March, the Duke of Sussex, 39, spoke with
the the Hungarian-Canadian doctor, 79, about 'living with loss and the
importance of personal healing,' while promoting his memoir Spare.
During their sit-down, which was live-streamed on
the web and cost $33 to watch, Harry made a series of bombshell claims about growing up as a
royal.
The conversation was fiercely scrutinized,
especially after it was brought to light that Gabor had made a series of eyebrow-raising comments in the
past - like comparing Hamas
to the Jewish heroes of the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising against the
Nazis, defending Palestinian rocket fire at Israeli civilians,
and branding Israel's government as terrorists.
He is also an outspoken supporter of
decriminalizing drugs, and has used the Amazonian plant ayahuasca to treat
patients suffering from mental illness.
Now, the author and physician has addressed the public's 'demeaning, dismissive, and distorted' reaction to his chat with Harry, while revealing that it left him in a really 'dark place.'
'There was an incredible social media reaction to
it, which was, for the most part, so negative and so demeaning and so
dismissive and so distorted,' he said during a recent appearance on Steven Bartlett's The Diary
of a CEO podcast.
'I barely even know how to talk about it. I thought
by this age I would know better, but you know what, it really got to me.'
Gabor said the backlash left him in a 'really
negative state of mind' and feeling like he 'lost himself' - leading to him
eventually reaching out to a psychiatrist for help.
'I was in a dark place, I'm a human being like the
rest,' he continued. 'It's so difficult to ask for help but I did.'
He accused the media of twisting his words and
recalled them calling him things like 'stern, overbearing, and a merchant of
pain.'
After speaking to a psychiatrist, however, Gabor
said he later realized that his problems didn't have to do with the criticism,
but rather, stemmed from an 'old unresolved wound' from his past.
According to Gabor, he had reservations about
talking to Harry from the start, since he was uncomfortable with the idea of
making people pay to watch it.
Gabor said the backlash put him a 'really negative state
of mind' and resulted in him feeling like he 'lost himself' during an
appearance on Steven Bartlett's The Diary of a CEO podcast
The conversation was live-streamed on the web and tickets
were priced at $33. People who watched it received a copy of Harry's book, Spare
'I had a gut feeling all along that I shouldn't
agree the way they set it up. Because the way it was set up, to watch it,
people had to buy a copy of Harry's book,' he explained.
'I thought, "This is not fair, four million
people have already bought the book. Why can't they watch this interview?"
They had to buy another copy.
'I believed this should be a free public service
from two people who are having a very interesting conversation.
'But out of sheer opportunism I agreed to
it. I didn't follow my gut feeling. I agreed to something that I
didn't really like.
'Not that I didn't like the idea of talking with
him, I didn't like the idea of putting myself behind a pay wall. I lost myself
just in agreeing to do it.'
Despite his regrets about the interview, Gabor
insisted that he 'doesn't care' what the public thinks of him anymore.
But he said he wants people to 'see him' for who he
is and 'not some distorted version.'
'I don't care if people agree with me or if they
refute my ideas, but I want them to see me and what I'm actually saying, not
some distorted version created by their own minds,' he concluded.
'So what if someone says [something bad about me].
I don't live in the press. I don't live in someone else's mind. Here I am.
Let them think and say what they want.'
Gabor said that after the interview, he had to reach out
to a psychiatrist for help, adding, 'I was in a dark place, I'm a human
being like the rest.' Harry is seen during their chat
Gabor has more than two decades of experience
working with people suffering from addiction and mental illness - and he
fiercely believes that all of the problems we face as adults stem from trauma we endured as children.
Gabor has been scrutinized for comparing Hamas to the
Jewish heroes of the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising against the Nazis, defending
Palestinian rocket fire at Israeli civilians, and branding Israel's
government as terrorists
He himself had a traumatic upbringing. He was born
in Nazi-occupied Budapest in 1944,
and when he was five months old his maternal grandparents were among the Jews
murdered in Auschwitz. He was then taken from his mother
and hidden with an aunt until the war ended.
He is an outspoken supporter of decriminalizing
drugs, and has used the Amazonian plant ayahuasca to treat patients suffering
from mental illness.
The psychedelic plant, which is taken as a brewed
drink, causes people to experience hallucinations and other side effects,
including vomiting - something Prince Harry has admitted to using to manage his 'trauma and pain.'
It remains illegal in the US,
UK, and Canada,
and in 2011, Canadian officials threatened to arrest Dr MatΓ© if he didn't stop
using the drug to treat his patients.
On top of his shocking anti-Zionist comments, Gabor has
also contributed to a pro-Kremlin website that defends brutal regimes around
the world and has spoken warmly of the spittle-flecked Pink Floyd star and
alleged 'Putin apologist' Roger Waters.
OK THEN! Time for the blogger to intervene.
I have too much to say about Gabor Mate (and won't write a poem about him, though I think I did once). I did meet the man back in 2003, interviewing him for January Magazine, an online publication which never paid me one red cent for all my hard work. He had just written his second book, When the Body Says No, which is one of those titles that sounds like a lot, but means very little.
I think I was taken in by his guru-hood even then, though at the time he was still an actual doctor, a family practitioner working on the cruel streets of Vancouver. He even gave me a tour of his downtown office, and showed me around the sights, i. e. the various addicts standing around in their different states of dereliction. He seemed hyper, severe, with an unreadable face that I was soon to learn only had one expression.
He's likely the only person I ever met who doesn't smile. I mean, he doesn't. In the rare "smiling" photos, it's more like a wince, with alarmingly dead eyes. He never laughs - I mean, he does not laugh. He was full of bombast during our coffee talks, but had no real warmth, no sense of the joy of living. In fact, I consider him one of the most joyless human beings I've ever met. And he cannot survive if he is not playing the role of the perpetual saviour.
Unfortunately, this has worked all too well for him, and his fans are cultish in their devotion. One even described him as "like having Jesus back here on earth". When you look at his detestable pro-Hamas views, his baffling and even frightening alliance with Russia, you've got to wonder how Jesus could have gotten so fucked up.
At any rate, though there's more, I am weary of the subject already and don't want to waste another brain cell on him. For all his Messianic posturing, the guy is about as resilient as an ice cube on a hot summer's day. There's no "there" there, no real substance, and no real joy.
The doctor has been unmasked, and he cannot stand it.. In one breath he says people's comments nearly destroyed him, then immediately says he does not care two figs about what anyone says. Hypocrisy, much? Or is his memory so faulty he doesn't remember what he said just a minute ago?
, and peace all over the world . I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?
How’s Alaska? I so much love Alaska because it’s such a beautiful state
