There's a slightly macabre story about the great Welsh poet Dylan Thomas, a man so dissipated he expired from chronic alcoholism in his late 30s. (His last words purportedly were, "I've had eighteen straight whiskeys. I think that's the record.") Lionized in America, he found the seductions of the White Horse pub a little too much for him and keeled over with a brain hemorrhage. His widow Caitlin recalls that when his body was being shipped back to Wales for burial, some of the deckhands noticed his coffin and sat down around it to play a spirited game of poker.
"How Dylan would have loved that!" she exclaimed.
Indeed.
The coffin in the picture above doesn't contain Dylan Thomas. More likely the photo depicts one of those Irish wakes where they like to prop up the body with a drink in its hand and carouse all night long. It does not really qualify as post-mortem photography except in the broadest sense: the subject is someone who is being memorialized in a permanent and significant way.
Before we look at any more of these, let's quote the Great and Powerful Wikipedia:
And it's true that on the surface of it, the images seem creepy and provoke a visceral response. We're not used to seeing dead people, except perhaps at open-casket funerals. Not used to seeing them arranged like furniture or braced so they could stand up beside their living kin.
But some sites devoted to this strange practice claim (correctly, I think) that post-mortem photography reflects a fascinating and very significant cultural shift in attitudes toward mortality. Death was much closer then, and less sanitized; people died in their beds, were washed and dressed and prepared for burial by loved ones. The camera was magic in those days, a way to paint an instant portrait, but not to be used lightly due to scarcity and cost (i.e. no one owned a camera then; you went to a portrait studio in your best clothing, stood very still, and didn't smile).
The babies are the saddest, of course. Victorian women must have gone through agony in their childbearing years, with primitive or non-existent obstetrics, high mortality rates and a complete absence of birth control. Almost everyone would lose an infant, more likely several. Were people more hardened to loss back then? I doubt it. They had to put their grief somewhere, just as we have to today.
They needed something to hold on to, a memento. Because there were no Kodak moments then, no digital cameras or cells or any of the gadgets with which we so casually snap a picture, there would be no record of Junior's first smile or first steps or first day of school.
The post-mortem photograph, the only existing image of a baby or a child or even an adult, would be cherished and preserved for generations (as witness the thousands of images I found on the internet). I can feel the melancholy behind this gesture, the aching grief in the attempt to make a dead infant appear "lifelike".
These waxen dolls are disturbing, but only if seen through our modern abhorrence of anything to do with death. We die in hospitals now, often alone. Life is prolonged past the point of any real meaning: we do it because we can, which has come to mean that we're supposed to, that there's no other choice. Death is the enemy, to be beaten back as long and fiercely as possible.
People "fight" cancer, "triumph" over it or "lose the battle". The medical community seems embarrassed by it all. Disease isn't supposed to happen, and if it does, it must be vanquished. I don't think the Victorians thought in terms of losing battles, or even winning. The majority of them were deeply Christian, which means they believed the dead were gathered up by the Almighty and transported to a better place for all eternity.
Spiritualism became tremendously popular in this era, along with the belief that the ghosts of loved ones sometimes appeared in photos. And they did, if the photographer knew what he was doing.
The Victorians knew that life and death were separated not by a doorway or a passageway but by a gossamer veil, something the merest breeze could draw aside. These eerie portraits of life-in-death convey a sense of dwelling in that mysterious other world even while still embodied on earth. It's a bizarre and even repugnant concept to us, but not to them.
I try to imagine it. It's hard to go there, to put myself there. I wonder what it would be like to touch a dead baby, to tenderly position it for a portrait under blazing lights, to hold its likeness close for years and years while other children came and went.
Their haunted eyes seem to stare at us through time, through space, even through the mists of death itself.
Yikes.
ReplyDeleteYes. I kept telling myself, don't do this, don't go there. It's almost unbearably creepy to look at this, but they weren't doing this to weird themselves out or to be "morbid". It was a dignified procedure meant to preserve the memory of a cherished person. But oh God, those open eyes!
ReplyDeleteA lady I worked with did this. Her baby passed away about two weeks after she was born so the took away all the tunes and wire and she took a picture of her holding her baby. She looked like a beaming proud mommy in the picture. :(
DeleteI've been having similar problems with posting comments. Mainly, I can't read them. I'm trying to get used to Mozilla and can't manage it, but Internet Explorer no longer works for certain things. A stupid problem: why doesn't it fail altogether? When I try to read or post comments or send an individual post to someone, I get a blank square. (As bad, or worse, as/than a blank stare.)
ReplyDeleteA lot of people have had trouble with the latest version of Mozilla (8 or 9?). I've put off upgrading for that reason. Google Chrome is supposed to be pretty good, but I tried it and it was too damned complicated.
ReplyDeleteI've known living people with blank stares just like those in the photos. Perhaps they were zombies, which are becoming fashionable again.
What's so funny about all this, I mean funny-peculiar, is that it WASN'T odd or funny to the Victorians. In fact, it was a loving and respectful tribute to the memory of the departed. WE see it as macabre because we all think we're going to defeat death with technology and live forever (ironically, because most people agree technology is ultimately going to destroy the human race).
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ReplyDeleteMy name is Jacqueline Darnell Gunning, im wondering if there might be any relation??? to be honest with you i stumbled upon this page as i have had a complete and utter obssession with post mortem photos for some time now..... if you would like to contact me here in South Africa please do so on jackie1@live.co.za, i am looking forward to hearing from you.
Very informational - I was always thinking that the photos of people standing up and such were mislabeled by unscrupulous antique dealers - Now I see - it was quite a Jim Henson type production to be photographed post mortem. I have just aquired my second post mortem photo & now your page has educated me a bit more - many thanks.
ReplyDeleteThis is very sad, but so true :(
ReplyDeleteBeautifully written...thank you.
ReplyDeleteThis is a wonderful and sensitive post, well written and you handle the subject with kindness and understanding that many simply do not have. The Victorian era was just so very different from ours, and yet.... so close, yet so far.
ReplyDeleteI question some of these with open eyes. Not long after death the eye balls begin to sink back into the skull, and wouldn't look normal.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Margaret. I spend a lot of time with medical and social work records from the 1st half of the 20th century in China for a Ph.D. dissertation. The stories stick with me in a way I can't quite describe. As medical records, photos are either of living people or parts of their bodies that were removed. The social work narratives live with me, although these people are now gone.
ReplyDeleteThis practice still occurs today - I volunteer for Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep and do infant memorial photography. The pictures are not so disturbing looking, but yes, we photograph babies who have passed so their parents have something to remember of them.
ReplyDeleteBless the work you do. I know of several mothers who have unfortunately had to call upon NILMDTS for portraiture of their lost babies and they so treasure those only images they'll ever have of so much promise lost.
DeleteIN the old days, I was told, in the SOuth especially, they made these for people who could not travel to attend the funerals, and it allowed closure, as a visitation does. I foun dphotos of my great-great grandparents in my grandmothers' things.
ReplyDeleteI'm not that old and even my southern grandparents did this.
DeleteThis was very interesting and I try to remove the "weird" factor and see them just as they are, loved ones. How hard that your only memory of your baby is after its passed
ReplyDeleteThis was lovely. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteSo weird...
ReplyDeleteSo weird...
ReplyDeleteRegarding the open eyes... Some of the "open eyes" were painted on the lids, and if you look at many of them, like that man standing up by himself (diagram of post mortem stand beneath him) his eyes looks ANYTHING but "normal". The eyes ALL have a very vacant look to them or else they look peculiar (i.e painted on). Thhe subject of these photos facinates me,t oo... and that bothers me. I have 4 children, aged 2-8 and it IS hard to NOT put yourself in the place of these poor families, when you see these poor children. You catch yourself saying "oh, Lord, if that was one of MY children" then you immediately get disturbed. And of course you are GLAD it isnt one of your own loved ones, but the depth of the subject makes you bond in a heartbreaking way with these people.
ReplyDeleteThose are myths brought on by the internet and greed. Death was a common occurrence in the Victorian era, and photography was a new concept. It is true the Victorians took post mortem photos, but they certainly didn't consider it morbid to photograph the dead as they were, dead. That is a concept started in more recent times, and gained popularity as the internet gained popularity. The earliest mention I can find is from 2003. They did not stand the dead, sit them upright, paint eyelids or do anything else so the dead appeared alive. A photographer may have altered a photo itself, but not so the dead appeared alive,but in cases where a person may have blinked, etc.VPMP were usually quite obvious with decedent in a bed or coffin surrounded by flowers. Closed eyes do not always mean dead because they often photographed small children as they slept because they were still. MANY pics on the net are labeled pm when they are not pm. Don't you wonder when looking at a photo, why you can't tell who is deceased? Because it isn't a post mortem photo. If you question the validity of a VPMP, 9x out of 10 it is not post mortem. Why do these myths continue? Look up VPMP on Etsy and you'll see why. You'll also notice pics are now labeled "possibly pm" because reports of fraud. Sellers know many believe these myths and are adamant about it, so they need not worry about selling these fake VPMP. They also know many perpetuate these myths, therefore the concept isn't likely to die down any time soon.
Deleteexcellent post on the subject~ thank you for sharing
ReplyDeleteAs the mother of a stillborn son, I appreciate this discussion. We took pictures of ourselves with our son and treasure those photos greatly, but they can be disturbing to people not comfortable with death, so we keep them in an album rather than in frames. I don't envy their losses, but I do envy Victorians' ability to openly acknowledge their infants' deaths.
ReplyDeleteYour top picture is of the Irish folk group The Dubliners, here's a picture of them from about the same time;
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I think, though not positive, its the wake of their lead singer Luke Kelly (on the right in my pic).
I'm not familiar enough with The Dubliners to have an opinion as to whether it's them or not, but Luke Kelly died in 1984, and this photo would be from the mid 1950s- mid/late-60s.
DeleteMy best guess is that the picture is a publicity shot associated with one of the Dubliners' best known songs: Finnegan's wake"
DeleteHello back un 1997 I had a stillborn little boy whom I lost at 39 weeks pregnant i have photographs of him which are beautiful to me so I can understand wanting to keep a photograph as a memory
ReplyDeleteHello back un 1997 I had a stillborn little boy whom I lost at 39 weeks pregnant i have photographs of him which are beautiful to me so I can understand wanting to keep a photograph as a memory
ReplyDeleteWe are ushered away from death as if it is some sort of shameful secret. This has been especially true of infant death, where parents are made to feel ashamed of their grief. I worked at a children's hospital about 12 years ago. Cutting a long story short, I was required to photocopy a pathology report for a baby who died not long after birth, and who also had physical deformities. I must have photocopied those photos about 6 times before I was satisfied with the quality. I was very anxious that the parents would be upset seeing their baby (the photos were somewhat unsettling), but I was also concerned that they would also want a clear photo of the baby they had never stopped grieving for. When they met with the counsellor, who warned them they might find the photo upsetting, the mother said how much the baby looked like its father (l don't recall if baby was a boy or a girl). I was so relieved when she told me this. I learnt a lot about the grief of losing a child, and in this particular case, how important that picture was to the parents-they had buried their grief for all those years, and the only concrete thing left was baby's post mortem photo. The photos of the children in this blog post are poignant beyond words, not creepy. It shows a maturity about death that we have lost in the intervening years. I'm sure there are many folks out there who wish they had a picture of their deceased child. The photos are dignified and sensitive and must have been of great emotional value to their bereaved parents and wider family.
ReplyDeleteYou are such a caring person to have taken the time to make sure the photocopies were the best possible quality for the parents. Not many would take the time to do that today. I agree that the photos here are dignified and quite moving, to me at least. The photos of the children are the most heartbreaking. I can understand why parents and other family members would want to have a keepsake of their loved one. I can remember my own grandmother having a photo of a mother holding her recently deceased child, who appeared to be about 10 years old. I was a child when I first saw that photo and I just thought the mother was holding the child awkwardly; I did not realize the child was dead. It was only later on as an adult did I found out the truth about the photo. I do think it is a shame that we are so 'afraid' of death in today's world. It is a natural part of our existence and yet we want to sanitize it with funeral homes and all the modern trappings of a visitation and funeral. Sometimes I think it would be better if we _could_ die in peace at home, surrounded by loved ones and knowing they will be the ones to handle our body.
DeleteOkay that is so creepy. Guess who's having nightmares tonight...
ReplyDeleteI can feel the pain and the loss when looking at these images. Those poor families.
ReplyDeleteI think these pictures are beautiful. I know, with our thinking today, they seem creepy... and yeah it could be pretty creepy having pictures of dead people. But these pictures are commemorating a life that once was. A life that was short lived. In that era the death rate was high.. expecially in children. We are lucky enough today to have access to cameras where we can take pictures of our childrens (and other loved ones) every second if we choose. This was not an option then. For most, the post mortem photos was the ONLY picture they had of their loved ones. My heart breaks for all the loss back then. I can't imagine what it would be like to lose a child let alone multiple children over a period of time. I have a picture of my grandmother in her casket. It helped me to gain closure by having that. As it most likely did these people so long ago.
ReplyDeleteOur society has lost all compassion and been highly desensitized to the fact that death is ALWAYS around the corner.
Fascinating and very moving.
ReplyDeleteI didn't know anything about this - as a photographer I find it mind-blowing but remembering grief I recall how important that last visual memory is.
Thank you for your efforts and insights, S
ALBUM OF PHOTOGRAPHS POST MORTEM
ReplyDeleteThat album of old photographs,
I took in my hands to look;
As old and shabby, poses with dark,
My soul yearned images stare ...
Old photographs, gloomy, dark,
Sad memories of those moments.
Sitting and standing, the morbid figures,
They seemed to sleep in grim faces ...
They were souls who died in the bed!
In Memoriam exposed as dismal,
Also figured a small infant ...
Seeing those faces, reflected no fear!
I know my future will arrive sooner,
Maybe later, soon or later ...
Poem By Blog LÃrio das Almas
(Lily of Souls)
São Paulo - Brazil
Margaret--I am wondering about the photo of the little girl with her hand at her brow...It looks to me like she has a thermometer in her mouth. Is she just ill, or certainly dead? The eyes seem strange...if she is indeed pm, is this a case of painting the eyes over the lid? If so, it's very detailed, but not at all impossible to do. The lowest arc under her eye could be the closed lid, if you cover the rest of the eye with a pencil or something. Your thoughts?
ReplyDeleteI looked at the photo again, and I believe you're right about the thermometer. I see it, too. I can't imagine taking a portrait with a thermometer in her mouth, alive or dead. So what's up with that?
DeleteMy nephew was 2 when he died a few weeks ago, and I was by his side every day for the 2 weeks that he was dying. It was very dignified, and I held his hand, kissed him, talked to him the whole time. Even in the hours after he died, when he was cold, it wasn't difficult.
ReplyDeleteUntil the funeral. I had to put his shoes on, and I just couldn't do it. The stiffness didn't make it impossible, it just really hit me then. I couldn't imagine the parents of these children having to position them when their bodies were that way...
The top image definitely is the Dubliners. Most likely its a promotional shot from the same session that provided this 1966 album cover.
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Finnigan's Wake is a 19th century Irish ballad, recorded by the group, which also provided James Joyce with the title for his 1939 novel, Finnegans Wake [sic].
I would love to know more about the last picture of the beautiful baby girl. If you have any information.
ReplyDeleteHello, and thanks for your question. This is not a baby, but a "reborn" doll. I didn't want to get into the issue of lifelike dolls, because there does seem to be a bit of a crossover, except that these "babies" were never alive. This is far creepier in my mind than what the Victorians did to cope with their grief, but then again - some people love them and collect them lovingly.
DeleteNot all of the post mortem photos were so easy to spot. Writing a lovely blog about this subject is so titillating when you show only gruesome and creepy dead babies, gives you the impression that the only photographs of post mortem children were the “in your face dead babies and toddlers”. Most post mortem photos are sweet and sad and very respectful, you see a life, not a death. The “in your face dead” was a later transformation as more middle class had access to photography and the abundance of less talented photographers who did not take the time to pose subjects as lifelike as possible. There are subtle hints. I have seen many, many, many post mortem photos, they certainly don't catch the eye as well as the preceding photos. I see so many wonderful examples of post mortem children and so many “Post Mortem????” EBay rip-offs, some wonder what we value anymore.
ReplyDeleteI just don't think there is a definitive answer, some children looked very much alive although they were very much dead. To the contrary not all children with eyes closed or creepy expressions or blank stares are dead, some are just that, really creepy kids. I like to believe in good old fashioned intuition, it's just genetically programed into our subconscious to know when someone is dead and in many photos there are subtle hints, you just have to look.
As a parent who lost a baby to miscarriage...the void carries on. You have certain expectations, they are stifled and cut short before they have a chance to begin. Not having the opportunity to hold my unborn baby, touch its tiny little hands...it leaves no room for closure but a void that lingers. The only "proof" I had that my baby was ever real...the sonogram photo. Even that allows me to know that the pain I still carry was for a reason. It wasn't real to everyone else, but it was certainly real to me. Something as simple as a photo...even a poor one...can become a priceless treasure to anyone experience grief and loss. Thank you for being so sensitive about this post and for sharing the information.
ReplyDeleteI am a graveyard photographer, and many times I come across graves of children that died so many years ago that their siblings are probably dead too, and that headstone is the only record of their passing. I couldnt make up my mind about these post mortem images initially, but as I read more over the months they began to be less creepy and more of a last impression of that loved one. I think that black and white photography does give them a slightly surreal feel, and I doubt if it would work well in colour. I have a niece in my family that drowned when she was just over 4, and many times I wish there was some record of her in pictures, but alas there is nothing.
ReplyDeleteNot all are postmortem -- the head vise, etc. was used to keep the subject still for a minutes-long exposure, and were common in early photo studios.
ReplyDeleteInteresting article! I did want to add that the last two are reborn baby dolls and not real people.
ReplyDeleteYou're right. I did sneak these in at the last, perhaps because I have similar feelings about reborn dolls. I know they are important to some people, but it's hard for me to see something that is cherished as if it is alive, when it is in fact inanimate.
DeleteMy little girl was a preemie (29 weeks) and the last picture of the baby in the parents hands is about the size she was when she was born. You had better believe that had she not made it, we would have had pictures taken of her with us in as normal a way as possible and might have even had our son take pictures with her. I guess because I have had to on several occasions thought of what would happen if my daughter did not make it, that this seems less unusual for me. My thoughts on this are that these are not dead children. These are someone's babies that they had hopes and dreams for and this is their desperate attempt to somehow hold onto those babies just a small while longer. God bless anyone who loses a child.
ReplyDeleteI understand what you're saying. Our whole culture has become so removed from death that it's seen as an aberration. It's "normal" to die alone in a hospital bed and be immediately cremated. Even wanting to spend some time with the "body" is seen as "creepy" and somehow abnormal and unhealthy, when it was once normal to wash and dress the body for burial as a last act of love. Now we are told over and over again that we must "let go". At best, the stages of grief are assigned to us and we must pass through each of them in order. Memorial services have become "a celebration of his/her life", and while I can see the value in this, sometimes it's like one big party and if you have to cry, you have to leave the room or you will be seen as "negative" and gloomy or unable to "let go". In other words, we're lousy at grief. The Victorians had no such hangups. Death was part of life. I don't think they felt any less agony at the death of a child however. People wore black as a visible sign of mourning, perhaps so others would treat them more gently. Now we slap a smile on and say, boy, he had a great life!
DeleteI have done years of research on Victorian photos and have written articles and have a website about them. I have also worked in museums in Victorian collections. If you count down from the top, photo number 8 is a photo of a live baby and is not even Victorian. The child is holding it's head up and has clear and focused eyes. The paper photo was creased and the brown flecks are foxing, from age. Photo number 10 is also a live child. Live children do not sit in chairs, hold their own heads up and look at the camera with focused eyes. And they certainly do not grasp the arms of chairs!
DeleteThank you for commenting. This wasn't a scientific or scholarly article but written from the vantage-point of a person who is curious about the subject and wants to explore it. I wanted to try to understand why this custom, which seems so odd or even morbid to us, was so important to Victorians. I've seen forums on the internet where people argue whether post-mortem photos are, in fact, post-mortem. Photos of people in the era often looked stiff or unnatural or glassy-eyed. In any case, the photos were meant to create atmosphere more than anything. The last two photos are of reborn dolls. I was trying to make a point about the blurred line between living/unliving.
DeleteThere is a lot of misinformation about Victorian postmortem photos on the Internet, primarily the thing about standing photos. Victorians did not want to stand their dead up to look life like. That is a ridiculous myth. They wanted them to look peaceful and in repose as we do now. They would be horrified by the idea of propping them up. For more info see: http://dealer042.wix.com/post-mortem-photos This website exists for education only, no ads and no profit.
DeleteThanks for your comments. I posted this piece literally eight years ago, and at the time people were more likely to take things like this at face value. I will let the piece stand because I literally don't have time to tear it apart, because the so-called updated material may not be right either (what is the proof?),and because I doubt there were no Victorian "tricks" to edit or change different genres of photography. Just look at all the "spirit photos" with ghostly images of the deceased plainly featured - so fake now we laugh at them, but they weren't laughing then. Thesa are clearly clever fakes, but no doubt MANY people were fooled by them. I think it might be evidence of fakery elsewhere in photography. Just my opinion, I didn't live in that era, and this was a very early blog post which is not gospel truth, obviously. I'd be interested in any blog or Facebook posts you might have on this subject. The insistence that Victorian corsets never hurt women and were actually GOOD for their health is another myth, a revisionist claim I very much doubt, made by fetishists striving to defend their addiction. Thoughts?
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